Now I'm just frustrated, not to mention irritated, with her, and it's causing me to be unplesant and snappy, which triggers massive arguments with my family about how I should not let people walk all over me, which I don't. I'm generally a nice person who hates to fight with what few friends I have. But once I feel that something has gone on for too long, I get very hot-headed and then I try to unsucsefully fix the problem, which, of course, makes everything worse and I wind up making myself and everyone around me miserable. I'm not a plesant person once I get to this state of being.
In this case, however, I have gotten past the "angry bitch" phase, and now I'm just confused and hurt because my best friend, whom I rarely fight with, is mad at me for something offensive I did eons ago, and she won't forgive me. Sad days.